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The hidden costs of self-doubt and feeling like a fraud

The hidden costs of self-doubt and feeling like a fraud

Remember that nagging feeling you get, like you’re just playing a part and soon everyone will see through your act? Or that stubborn thought that you’re just not as good as people think you are? These ‘fraud’ feelings and self-doubts can really put a damper on your life, affecting everything from your mood to your work.

 

Firstly, these thoughts can make you feel like you’re always under a spotlight, waiting to be ‘exposed’. This constant worry can make you feel stressed and anxious and can even lead to depression.

The mental strain doesn’t stop at messing with your mood; it can also cause physical problems like sleep issues and other stress-related health troubles.

Then there’s the impact it can have on your working life. You might find yourself working long hours, trying to prove to yourself (and others) that you’re not a fraud. This can lead to serious burnout.

And the fear of tripping up or, strangely enough, doing really well, can hold you back from taking on new challenges or opportunities that could be great for your career.

These feelings can also cast a dark shadow over your relationships. It’s tough to take compliments to heart when you’re always doubting yourself. This can lead to misunderstandings with your mates, family, and workmates.

And when you’re too afraid to ask for help because you don’t want to reveal your ‘fraudulence’, you might end up feeling pretty lonely.

The most serious cost, though, is the missed chances. When you’re always second-guessing your abilities and downplaying your achievements, you miss out on the joy of success, the sense of a job well done, and the opportunity to achieve even more.

You’re basically setting up your own roadblocks, limiting your life experiences.

In a nutshell, feeling like a fraud and doubting yourself can be harmful for your mental and physical health, your job, your relationships, and your ability to reach for the stars.

But remember, these feelings don’t define you or your worth. By asking for help when you need it with an experienced mindset coach, being nice to yourself, and building a network of supportive folks, you can start to shake off these doubts and fears and start living life to the fullest.

If you are having problems with self-doubt or feeling like a fraud, we should chat. DM me or contact me through the link on my profile.

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